Monday, November 28, 2011

The Mommy in me!

When you hear that your son has started getting physical with other kids - the mommy in you says what? oh..gawwdd... why is he being such a naughty brat ?? or rather you take it as ..it all happens in childhood . Now , am not very sure which of the two occurred to me as all i could think was , is he doing that really ? as he is usually the lovable darling boy who bears with all the beating and pushing that others kids do with him . I have always worried about how he is very timid and bears what other kids do to him when he was 2 years old. I remember how i felt so bad when my neighbour's kiddo pushed him away and Vihaan fell and kept going back to get friendly with the kid who was pushing him . Probably , now he has learnt to be like the OTHER KID ! well, it does bother you a little when teachers report about a certain not so appreciable behavior but they also added, it is not to the extent to hurting another child .It's just pushing away another kid to watch their reaction .Am wondering if he is thinking of this as a small game that he usually plays with his grandma at home .Kids are so good at imitating what they do or what others teach them . So let the mommy in me take it easy and wait to watch if this gets serious :-P